5 things to avoid as a married man

 5 things to avoid as a married man

1. Never belittle, humiliate, or criticise her.

You promised to spend the rest of your life with her because you love her and because she is your wife. Why would you criticise her if all of above is accurate? People tell me of a time when their husband made a derogatory comment about their wife while she was there at a party. Really? Therefore, we may now be both demanding and critical at the same time. Instead, you should want to encourage her, make her feel good about herself, and help her appreciate having a charming and supportive husband.

2. Never desert her or betray her.

Okay, you play on a lot of teams. You have your wife and your children. three) Her family (her parents and siblings), four) Your family 5) Companions. So let me explain it again in case you don't understand. Above all others, she should be your top priority for protection. That implies that you don't allow your kids to disparage their mother. They'll treat her with respect. You must constantly be on her side if any relatives mistreat her. You must intervene if your parents act disrespectfully or say something inappropriate. She needs to know that you will always stand by her. Always keeping your word to her means keeping all of your vows. Ever.

3. Do not utter the D word.

The phrase "divorce" should never be used until you genuinely want to do so if you are married, want to stay that way, and want to have a happy marriage. This is the same as opening the door with one foot and closing it with the other. It is a threat and demonstrates a lack of dedication.

4. Maintain your gentlemanly demeanour.

You piled on the romance when you were dating her. You let her through doors. You delivered flowers. The bags were yours to carry while you went shopping. So let me ask you: Why did you cease doing the car door opening for her? Doesn't she deserve more respect if she is now your wife and not just your girlfriend? Please continue to hear ladies say, "I remember when he used to..."

5. Never cease demonstrating your affection for your wife.

Find little methods to let her know you care. The next morning, send her a love note. Purchase her preferred bagels on the way home from work. Clear the table. Let her rest while you send the kids to school. During the day, text her and let her know you're merely thinking of her. You promised in your vows to "love, honour, and cherish." Let her know how much you value her.

In conclusion, Any actions that are physically or emotionally abusive to their wives should not be taken by husbands. This involves physically assaulting their partner—hitting, pushing, or otherwise—as well as verbally or emotionally abusing them—insulting, ridiculing, or exerting undue control over them.